According to this social media user with the handle, @Fikz_the_Cook, there some untold stories behind these situations.
The post reads;
“Stop shaming us women who have different kids with different fathers ….Life happened .. And its ok if a man does not want to date a woman with kids but just don’t shame us There are stories behind this ! Things did not work out as we hoped and planned !”
The post garnered some reactions from other social media users and some of these reactions are;
@Luthando022 – What’s the shame in having kids with different partners? I mean we as men are practically validated and applauded xa sina bantwana from different women. Kuthwa sandisa isduko sethu. I mean my dad’s younger brother has 27 kids that he knows of(there might be more).
@MissT9 – Sometimes I wish Twitter could group people according to age and then we engage with same age group people. But that would disadvantage the matured ones from other groups
@Majorciteh – People are weird but what I know they shame you on social media but in real life bagcina nani and loya sisi should not take this to heart my mom found someone when she had 3 kids
@Smalzin10 – Worst of all its the same guys who impregnated women and left them. So what must happen now, uhlale and not move on as a woman just cause you got kids but men can bring 5 kids in a relationship.
@chester_ta – Yazi bayadika abanye abafana abacinga bancono kunabanye abantwana. Women go thru the most just because us men decided not to use a condom and ran ngenxa ye unplanned pregnancy. Thina bantu banothando sizohlala sinikhulisela abantwana. This is why kusithiwa sizizinja. Mnxim
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