Pics! Pulane Lenkoe Physically Abused By Katlego Mphela! The brave socialite took to Instagram Tuesday afternoon in two lengthy posts sharing how she was physically abused by her now ex boyfriend football player Katlego Mphela.
Pulane also shared heartbreaking photos showing black eye from every time he beat her. Lenkoe says she finally got courage to leave him after Karabo’s death and hopes that her story will help someone in the situation she was once in.
“I honestly believe if it wasn’t for the unfortunate passing of Karabo i would still be in his arms till this day, i then realized that if I didn’t leave this would also be a destiny of mine. I do this in hope that this will find another woman like myself who thinks this behavior,” reads part of Pulane’s story.
Read it all from Pulane’s own words below and swipe to see he photos.
So…this is yet another day i chose to forget about the last time he put his hands on me. On 2nd April, he took me out on a nice lunch date to apologize for the last incident that had occurred prior to this day, though the physical abuse didn’t take place that day but i was flooded with insults just because my phone had died while i was attending a wedding with my girl friend which he knew months before about, so basically i was not allowed to go out without this man, even if it was a wedding, but for some weird reason i was okay with that, cause i generally don’t like going out, so on this particular day i had to force matters to attend this wedding which led to him insulting me and my friend later on that day. So on this day he took me out to apologize for that crazy behavior but funny enough on our way back that night he started insulting me again after having few drinks, then i told him this is it, we were done, as i was driving us back, was pissed off at myself, how could i be such a fool all these years thinking this man would ever change, was driving quite fast cause i desperately wanted to get home and get my belongings and leave him for good this time, the out of nowhere he started hitting me with fists on my face telling me i have no respect for him, he is busy trying to show me how much he appreciates me then i want to leave him, said ” who leaves the man who wants to make you a wife just cause he put his hands on you a few times, today I’ll show what a real beating looks like, with a grace of God I managed to control the car, and stop on the side of the road, mind you we are on the free way N1 when this happened, so i stoped the car, opened the door and as i got out, he also opened his door, so he can come to me and serve a serious beating, i then went back in my car cause for some weird reason he closed his door after getting out, so i locked all doors, then left him on the free way, that was the day i decide to take pics and keep them this time around. Because i had forgotten about the last time my clothes were bloodied and both my eyes were black eyed, my body had bruises all over and lied to everyone close to me said i was involved in a car acc
accident that’s how badly injured I was, the first time he beat me( I wish I had kept the pics, but he convinced me to delete them in order for us to move on, after he told me he will never allow himself to touch me again, blamed it on stress and insecurities, so i forgave him), funny thing is that i always considered myself to be very strong, i guess we all have our weaknesses, i allowed this man who promised to love, protect and make me feel safe to do this to me over and over and over and over again, and each time he would swore, ” nka se tlhole ke go toucher, i promise my love” and soon as he said that it’s like i would be hypnotized or something cause the only person i felt i needed it would be the same person who was causing me pain, and the one thing that i realize now that I’ve left that relationship is that not only do these men inflict physical pain but they will also cause emotional abuse, which is far more damaging, though i acted strong in front of the world it got to a point where i started believing the things he told me, and felt had nowhere else to go but to stay with him, till 6 weeks later after this incident took place and the passing of Karabo Mokoena(May her soul RIP❤️) occurred and that was an eye opener for me,I honestly believe if it wasn’t for the unfortunate passing of Karabo i would still be in his arms till this day, i then realized that if I didn’t leave this would also be a destiny of mine. Even after this incident, when I tried to leave him then he begged me to stay and said he was getting professional help, i wanted to believe him but in my heart i knew the relationship was far too gone to be saved, there was nothing left to be saved, every time he hit me, as much as I thought I needed him, i didn’t it was just fear of starting over without him, shame, and all of those negative thoughts occupying my head but the actual fact is he killed every love emotion I ever felt for him. There’s nothing worse than praying for someone or try to help someone who doesn’t see anything wrong with their actions, all you can do is pray for them from a distance, I do this in hope that this will find another woman like myself who thinks this behavior
