A Nigerian lady has ignited widespread conversation online after opening up about a relationship issue on X, formerly known as Twitter, prompting mixed reactions from social media users. In her post, she revealed that a man has been offering to drive her to work daily without asking for any payment. As a gesture of gratitude, she said she usually shares food with him whenever she cooks.
However, the arrangement reportedly took an unexpected turn when the man confessed his feelings for her, saying her kindness and meals had made him fall in love. She noted that she is already in a relationship and that the man is aware of this fact.
Uncertain about how to proceed, the woman turned to the public for advice, asking whether she should inform her boyfriend about the situation and how best to deal with the man who has been driving her.
She wrote: “There’s a man that drives me to work every day and doesn’t collect a dime from me, so anytime I cook, I try bringing food for him as my way of showing appreciation.
“Now he said he loves me and my food has won his heart. The issue is that I have a man and he knows.
“Should I tell my man about it or not? I don’t know what to do with the man.”
The post quickly gained traction online, sparking a wave of responses that ranged from sharp criticism to thoughtful guidance.
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Read some comments below:
@Fozz: “You wan tell your man say your driver like you ke? Skill issue, you fit dey run both na on a low.”
@Adeyeye: “Why are you confused when you have a man. If you want to cheat, be bold Ogbeni.”
@Queen Oma: “You have to be transparent here and don’t create problems on your future. The man you are referring to is he a husband to you? Tell him if he is your husband.”
@Dazi: “Depends on your value! But you know who your hearts beats for!! Kind gestures are actually enough to stire emotions and that’s where communication comes in.
“If you don’t want it to go further and not lose the free ride and you are cool with appreciating with food? Tell him.”
@Adedee: “No need to tell ur man Look into the two of them and pick the one that suites u o no go use say because e de drive u go work go choose am o.”
@Wagon: “Then you have to stop the free ride that you’re getting and be going to work by yourself.”