Popular Nigerian media personality Frank Edoho has shared his opinion on a long-debated topic, whether whether women truly appreciate kind men.
Speaking during a recent episode of TVC’s talk show The Black Table, Edoho claimed that many women are more attracted to “bad boys” than to consistently kind men.
He made the statement while reflecting on an article he had read online. “There was an article I saw on a blog that intrigued me. The topic was, ‘What is that red flag that you admire in the opposite sex?’” he recounted.
According to him, the responses from women further strengthened his belief that being too nice might not be a winning strategy for men in relationships. “Although I am of the school of thought that men shouldn’t be nice all the time, the answers I got further my resolve that men should not even be nice at all,” he said.
Edoho highlighted some of the responses he found particularly surprising. “There was one I saw that says, ‘I like it when my man tells me, ‘I don’t want to repeat myself again.’ She said it turns her on,” he shared. “Others said that they like it when their man wax them, not extremely but shows power—it turns them on.”
He concluded by noting, “There are some strange things going on in the minds of these women that you are trying to be nice to. I am not saying all of them are like that but majority of women don’t like nice guys. They want bad guys that are nice to them sometimes.”