File photo of a worried woman
Dear GhanaWeb,
My husband and I have been married for three years, but we haven’t had kids yet. We decided to take our time as a young couple and focus on building our finances before starting a family. My husband’s brother lives with us temporarily due to a job he secured in our city, so my husband offered to accommodate him for a while.
Recently, we took a family trip out of town to spend a few days together. However, even before the trip, I noticed that my husband’s brother had been giving me strange attention.
Whenever he is around, he’d often act in ways that felt flirtatious, and sometimes, when it was just the two of us, he’d make indirect flirtatious remarks. I never paid much attention to it at first.
During our trip, my husband got busy with something on one of the days, and his brother offered to keep me company.
He suggested taking me to explore a part of the forest, explaining that he had lived in the village for about a year and knew the area well. We chatted as we walked, but eventually, we reached a point where he claimed he didn’t recognize the area, and we ended up getting lost.
We were struggling to find our way back to where we were camped, then he started acting all romantic and caring.
He began talking about how good he could handle me in bed, and he had the courage to grab my breast and kissed me. I was kind of surprised he did that, so I didn’t say anything.
He continued with the romance, and I tried to fight back but the idea of sex in the bush seemed nice to me, so I gave in.
We had sex in the bush and although the feeling was nice, I felt sorry afterwards.
I haven’t really given him a chance to come any closer because I see him like my weakness now. I’m avoiding him and he keeps trying to get closer.
He has been texting me and saying crazy stuffs. I’m always horny when I see his message or himself.
I keep watching his pictures and imagining what we did in the bush but I don’t want to repeat it. I’m scared if my husband should find out, my marriage would be over and I don’t want to divorce my husband because he’s a good man. I want to avoid him completely but it’s becoming harder to handle.
He is driving me crazy and I don’t know what to do.
I don’t get that horny when I’m with my husband. What should I do to forget about my husband’s brother and focus on my husband only?
FG/EB
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