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Dear GhanaWeb,
I’m in my final year at university, and we’re supposed to submit our project work before graduating. My supervisor is very strict, so people are usually intimidated to approach him.
I wanted to pay a classmate to help me, but the person isn’t done with their own project yet. I’ve been feeling stressed, and I don’t know how to handle this.
One day after lectures, my supervisor asked me to see him. I got nervous and started wondering what I could have done to get called by someone so strict.
When I went to meet him, he asked if I would be free that night because he wanted us to meet at a lounge to discuss my research project. I agreed, thinking it would just be a normal mentoring session.
When I arrived at the lounge, he had already ordered drinks. I greeted him and showed him the progress I had made on my project.
Then he told me that I was stressing myself too much. I had brought my laptop with me, but he asked me to put it aside and join him in drinking. The cocktail he ordered was so good that I ended up drinking more than I intended, forgetting there was alcohol in it. Before I knew it, I lost control.
He suggested I get more of the cocktail if I wanted, so I kept ordering until I completely lost myself. We started chatting like friends, laughing together, and having fun. The man everyone was afraid to approach was now sitting here with me, and I was genuinely surprised.
Then, suddenly, he began complimenting me, telling me how intelligent and smart I was. He said he admired my confidence, and he was just sweet-talking me.
I don’t even remember how we left the lounge. The next thing I knew, we were at a hotel. That’s when I realized what he meant by “I’m stressing myself.” I intentionally asked him why we were there, and he told me that I wasn’t a kid.
He said if I did this with him, I wouldn’t need to worry about my project anymore.
I’ve been crushing on him secretly but I couldn’t speak up because he is always reserved and unfriendly.
He is so handsome and breath-taking. Then I made the first move, I kissed him so passionately first and I know he will be wondering why that happened.
That’s how we started romancing each other, then he went down on me. He kept saying I’m very neat so he could lick me till the next day without him getting tired.
I really enjoyed the foreplay, then few minutes later we started making out. As he was enjoying the sex, he started professing his love for me and how he wouldn’t want me to give my body to any other man aside him.
I was just asking myself that, is he saying all this because he is enjoying the intimacy? But I was happy though because I’ve always wanted him. After everything, we were just lying down staring at each other.
I was still drunk so he asked me to get some sleep since I’m tired and weak. I slept off and when I woke up, I realised he had left.
The next day I went to lectures and I tried talking to him because of the things he told me when we were together.
Guess what? He ignored me. I was shocked, like what’s going on? This man was just acting as if we never met or nothing transpired between us.
Does that mean he took advantage of me? Even though he has confirmed I’ve submitted my project work already but my feelings for him just kept growing. What should I do to get his attention again?
FG/EB
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