In this particular piece, we shall look at tips on how to text a girl you barely know
Ask her about her day. Find out what she’s been up to start some casual small talk. This usually works best if the girl you’re chatting with knows who you are so it doesn’t seem like you’re randomly messaging her. Reach out in the afternoon or evening when she’s available and ask how she’s doing. Follow up with a few more questions as you learn more about her day to keep your conversation alive. You could say, “I’ve been crazy busy today. Anything exciting happened to you yet? You may also send, “How has your day been? It’s been so relaxing for me haha.”
Send her open-ended questions. Ask questions that require a longer response to learn more about her. Open-ended questions usually start with “why” or “how” and need an answer that’s longer than one word. Try to ask the girl some personal questions that help you get to know her better. Even though it may feel a little awkward at first, you’ll quickly start to feel comfortable having a deeper conversation. You might try asking things like, “What are your favorite bands?” or, “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?” you could also ask, “How would you describe your perfect day?” or, “How did you like growing up in your hometown?” You could also ask some fun “would you rather” icebreaker questions. You might ask something like, “Would you rather eat the same meal every day or never eat the same meal twice?”
Talk about a shared interest. You build a stronger bond by discussing the things you both love. If you know how the girl you’re chatting with likes to spend her free time, bring it up when you’re texting her. Be sure to mention some of the things you enjoy too so you can find something that you have in common. She’ll love that you’re showing some interest in her hobbies, and it gives her a chance to nerd out and chat about it.You could say something like, “The Hunger Games are my favorite books too! What’s your favorite part of the trilogy?” You might also say, “It’s been so long since I played soccer haha. How long have you been playing?”
Give her a compliment. Girls love hearing about what qualities about them you appreciate. If you’re into the girl and want to get on her good side, say something nice that you’ve noticed about her. It could be about her looks, her personality, or whatever else you admire. Just be careful not to come on too strong if you don’t know each other very well since it might make her feel a little uncomfortable. You could say, “I saw your latest Insta post and your hair looks amazing!” or, “Wow, your outfit is.” You might also say, “Hahaha you’re SO funny ” or, “Are you a writer?? You have such a great way with words!”
Tease her playfully. Poking a little fun keeps the conversation light and goofy. Every girl loves someone with a sense of humor, so try to show it off. Crack a joke about something she’s said or be a little sarcastic in your replies to take the edge off of the conversation. Reread your text before you send it to make sure it doesn’t sound mean or insulting. You could say something like, “Oh, you think you could take me on in arm wrestling? Try me” or, “LOL are you suuure that’s what you meant?”
Send exciting pictures of what you’re doing. Show off what you’re doing if you want to try and impress her. Give the girl a peek into your life so she feels a better connection with you. Snap a quick pic of where you are, what you’re doing, or even what you’re wearing and forward it to her. Write a short and flirty caption so she has a little more to work with when she replies. For example, you could send a picture of the sunset and say something like, “This looks so amazing in person, I wish you could be here!” You could also try sending a cute selfie and saying, “Just got this new outfit! What do you think?”
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