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The Nigerian actress Sarah Martins has compared how men (husbands) and women (wives) cheat.
She said that men are more likely to be able to control themselves when cheating than women are.
Miss Martins argued in a post she put on her Instagram that a man can have a side chic, who he may pay more attention to, and still love his wife without holding back.
“You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men, and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity, the better for you,” she said.
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The award-winning actress continued, “The truth is, a man can love his wife, provide for her, and protect her and still love his wife even more, and he will never neglect his family.”
On the other hand, the woman filmmaker said that once a woman starts seeing other men outside of her marriage, she will automatically start acting in ways that aren’t necessary toward her husband.
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Miss Martins says that some wives can’t even compare how much they love their husbands to how much they love the man’s side chic.
“In some cases, they (the wives) start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, and begin to find fault in virtually everything their men do. The man that you fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
“They begin to compare their husbands’ strength with their man friends’, they begin to harbour grudges more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize, etc.,” she revealed.
She argued, “Most of these so-called side chics, love your husbands even more than you do, oh yes…
“A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually, and spiritually, but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when you have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.”
Read her full write-up below:
“I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family.
But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way.
In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc.
You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
Most of these so-called side chics love your husbands even more than you do oh yes…..
A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
Your side man friends can NEVER dump their partners because of you because they will have the mentality that if you can cheat on your husband with him, you can do worst things to him when he finally makes u his.
So use your head and stop disgracing your children !
You may think nobody is seeing you but posterity will judge you sis.
And you men that find joy in sleeping with people’s wives, posterity will judge you!
I have seen where a man marries more than one wife and still love them equally but I’ve never seen where a woman marries more than 1 man.
Even in the Bible MEN NA OUR OGA!”