When you know how to spot the significant red flags, you save yourself a lot of drama and toxicity in the relationship. There are some things you shouldn’t accept in a relationship. Scroll through these women’s red flags that one should never ignore. The list below will help you stay safe and away from intimacy with an abuser.
1. You don’t share the same valueÂ
If you’re looking for a partner who doesn’t want children, then you might want to consider other options. If you value family and want to have children one day, then look for a woman who wants those things. They say that opposites attract, but this isn’t entirely true.
2. You live a completely different lifestyle.
If you are both set in your lifestyles and aren’t interested in changing, then this isn’t going to work. If she doesn’t want to live a similar life to you, then there will be a constant struggle. One of you will end up sacrificing and adjusting for the other.
3. She’s violent when upsetÂ
If she is highly aggressive when angry, you don’t need a relationship expert to know that’s an automatic major red flag. The scary thing about this is that you usually won’t spot this red flag right away, at least not until the infatuation wears off.
4. She says all her exes were jerks.Â
This is one of the things women say that is a major red flag. It could also mean she doesn’t always take responsibility for her actions. We never really admit her faults in a breakup, right? It’s much easier to blame the other person, even when it takes two.
5. She is easily obsessed.
You just started seeing each other, but she’s already clingy and calling you every hour of the day. This could be a sign that you may not want to ignore. Do yourself a favor and don’t ignore this red flag – you’ll thank yourself in the long run.
6. Unaccountable for her actions
You need a partner who understands accountability and accepts responsibility for their actions.When someone makes a mistake and always blames someone but not themselves, that’s one of the red flags you should never ignore. She could apologize and learn from her mistakes, or she could deflect from the situation and place the blame elsewhere.
7. Your boundaries aren’t respectedÂ
When a woman doesn’t respect your boundaries no matter what, it’s one of the red flags in a woman you should watch out for. A lack of respect is a signal that they’re not respecting you as a person. Don’t be afraid to leave.
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