My husband hates to see me pray. He gets so angry and starts a fight when he hears or sees me praying to God asking for something. He would insult me and call me all sorts of names.
I think it’s important to explain how it started. We have been married for 10 years with 4 children abroad. My husband is well-educated He holds a doctorate and my highest qualification is SSCE. He is gainfully employed, and takes care of the whole family and sometimes my siblings in Ghana. He doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, and even though he is nice looking he does not cheat.
I can bet on that. I on the other hand was raised by my aunt. I grew up together with her children and was always made to feel like I am unlucky. So even though I am married to such a man who most ladies would be fasting and praying for, I still feel unlucky.
One day, my husband caught me crying in the kitchen on his return from work. He consoled me and asked the reason why I was crying. I told him that I was unlucky. He asked why I think I am unlucky. I answered by saying he should look at my cousin Yaa.
Look at Yaa’s husband and her children. Yaa is very lucky but I am not that lucky. Instantly, my husband’s white eyeballs became red. He started shaking all over.
He spoke with so much anger. Let me quote his exact words: So now you believe an irresponsible, illiterate, drunk, and womanizing man such as Yaa’s husband who you think is better than me right? How will your children feel if they get to hear what you think of them too? I said nothing.
He said I am ungrateful and didn’t deserve anything that I have. He even said if he had the power to take away my breath he wouldn’t hesitate to. He made me feel worthless and useless.
Since then he gets angry anytime he hears me praying or singing a gospel song. He says I am ungrateful to God and man and don’t deserve to pray to God for help. He would ask me to shut up and insult me from morning till bedtime. I don’t know what to do and I hate him so much now.
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