I’m a young lady who just completed university. I have been dating a guy for the past three years. I really love this guy, two years into our relationship I decided to give him myself i was a virgin by then.
A month after that my phone got spoilt and i was in my final year in the university and most of my classes were online, so my man gave me his phone to use for the mean time while I repair mine.
During that period I vowed not to go through his phone but there was one particular message that kept on popping up and I couldn’t resist but to look at it only to find out I wasn’t the only one he was dating.
It really broke me I couldn’t confront him for a month. When i did he told me the lady was just a friend and they were just flirting. But the messages i saw said otherwise. Since then i found it very difficult to believe whatever he tells me. Just recently i saw another WhatsApp chat with another lady. I confronted him about that and he told me she is also just a friend and is the girl that likes flirting with him.
I didn’t believe him but he pleaded with me to let things slide but i gave him only one condition to stay away from the girl, just last month we had a quarrel and we didn’t communicate for almost a month, during that period he kept on posting the same girl on his status both Facebook and WhatsApp and I decided to stay away from him but i met him last week.Â
Since the day he met me he has been calling me to meet him which i did to clear things with him. I told him to move on. But he is making things look like I’m wicked person calling my friends and siblings that he would change and I’m only leaving him because I’m done with school. But that’s not the case I’m just tired of feeling not enough for a man because I don’t cook and clean and sleep over at his house.
Right now he calling me is making me think I’m taking things too far. I’m really confused right now
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