Finding a true gentleman can help make your dating experience amazing. They know how to satisfy women on the emotional level before they deign to venture into the physical realm. They’re considerate and kind, without being a complete doormat. In today’s write-up, we shall look at six signs which indicates you are actually dating a real gentleman.
He holds himself accountable for his actions. A man who is a real gentleman will not try to dodge responsibility for his actions. If he makes a mistake, he will own it and he will apologize. He will not try to convince you that it was somehow your fault, or try to manipulate you into thinking you read the situation wrong. He will simply accept that he has made an error, and he will quickly look to resolve the situation.
He communicates his needs and feelings. Being able to communicate efficiently is a sign of maturity. A man who can let his guard down, and tell you how he is feeling or what’s bothering him is a man who is showing you that he is man enough. He is showing you that you can count on him to help solve problems, express himself, and be able to get through things without escalating the situation with immature responses.
He makes you feel good about yourself. This can be a more subtle example of what makes a man a gentleman, but if you find yourself having increased self esteem around this person, it could be a sign that he’s the real deal. Gentlemen will often find small ways to make you feel good about yourself. It could be as simple as giving you an effective compliment, or more complex, like giving you validation, helping you feel safe to be yourself or you to pursue what you want.
He’s there when you need him. Sometimes, bad things happen in life. A sign of a true gentleman is that he is there to give you support during these times. Some men will simply disappear at the smallest sign of trouble. for example, if you get an injury, or are going through a difficult family problem. Gentlemen, however, will not just bolt the second something goes wrong.
He doesn’t resort to violence. A true gentleman will never, ever hit a woman. Women, for the most part are physically weaker than men, and using this inequality of strength against them is something that a real gentleman would never do. A gentleman knows that conflicts can be resolved with words, and never with fists.
He knows how to treat your friends. Even though he may not have a lot in common with your friends, he will still make the conscious effort to get to know them simply because they’re your friends. A real gentleman doesn’t sulk and complain when he’s in the of your friends. Even if it’s not his crowd, he will accept that you want to spend time with him and your friends at the same time.
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