Some girls are upfront and nip the thought of a relationship with a guy instantly. However, many other girls are much more subtle, and they try to be kind and let you down easily. So how can you tell if you’re being thrown to the curb gracefully by a girl, even when she doesn’t use the words and tell you straight that she isn’t interested in dating you?
In this particular write-up, we shall look at seven telltale signs that you are most definitely in the friendzone with a girl.
Asks you about other women. If your dream girl is constantly asking you about other women when you hang out, there are two basic trains of thought here. Either she is trying to find out what kind of woman you like to date, to see if she falls into that profile, or to know if you’re available at the time. However, this is probably the optimistic version.
Addresses you as a ‘friend’. This is probably one of the worst signs you’re being friendzoned by a girl. Both of you may spend all day together every day, yet the way she introduces you to her parents or her friends is a huge sign of her thoughts about you on a romantic level. Any introductions like “ Yaw is such a good friend” or “I absolutely love Yaw, he is my bestie,” and you should probably accept your fate in the Friend Zone.
She talks about her hookups. Possibly the worst part of being friendzoned by a girl is having to hear all about the other men she is totally digging, while you are not one of them. Knowing these guys aren’t right for her obviously, you should be the one with her doesn’t matter, because she can’t see past the nice car, that ripped body, or that gorgeous smile.
Brother from another mother? Being referred to as a “bestie” is a terrible situation for you to be in. But being referred to as “the brother she never had” is even worse, because who in their right mind would ever think about a “family member” in a dating scenario? You’ve definitely been friendzoned by this girl.
She avoids being alone with you in private. When a girl likes you, she wants to be alone with you in private. The reason for that is because she is interested in you and hopes you will make a move on her. But if you are in the friend zone with a girl, then she will avoid being alone with you because she doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea. So, if you find that she is always declining your invitation over to your place in favor of going out in public, then that is not a good sign.
She tries not to get too close to you or touch you. If a girl doesn’t have any romantic interest in a guy, then she is very conscious about how close she sits next to him or even walks near him. She thinks that if the physical distance is too small, then you will think she’s giving you a hint that she likes you. So, if she never touches you unless you initiate a hug or gets physically in your personal zone, then she is doing that on purpose to send you a message.
She’s inconsistent with her communication patterns. Maybe she does reach out to you first. So, you might think that’s a good sign, right? Well, maybe and maybe not. If she does, then watch her communication patterns. A girl who likes you will be consistent with communicating with you. But a girl who isn’t will blow hot and cold. One minute you think she likes you because she reaches out to you a lot, and then the next she will go silent for a long time.
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