Relationships are not perfect all the time. An unhealthy relationship can leave you feeling drained, empty, hurt, and distressed. In this particular article, we shall look at seven things that are practically guaranteed to destroy any relationship.
Poor Communication. Poor communication can kill a relationship. To create a stronger connection, partners should express what they want, feel, and expect. Long-term and healthy relationships are built on a foundation of effective communication and cooperation between two partners. Also, success and happiness in a relationship are directly related to communication. It is a vital tool that builds love, trust, loyalty, mutual understanding, and respect for one another in a relationship. As a result, partners can feel understood, validated, and connected.
Defensiveness. You begin by assuming the other person is attacking you (instead of trying to explain things to you) and defend everything for instance” no I didn’t! I would not do that, That is not what I intended” blocking rather than listening. This eliminates a spirit of collaboration.
Taking your partner for granted. Many people put in the efforts only till they get into a relationship. Later they gradually start taking the other person for granted.
Thinking you can change your partner. It is not practically possible to like all the qualities and habits of your partner. One should figure out what are the deal-breakers for him/her. Sometimes people get into relationship with the assumption that they can get their partner to change. But that rarely happens.
Being clingy/needy. It’s natural to spend more time together at start of the relationship. But once you are in a stable relationship there should be healthy amount of space as well. If one persons is clingy and possessive all the time then the other person will feel suffocated.
Distrust. Trust is the most important foundation of any relationship. If a couple doesn’t have Trust, they have nothing to anchor a relationship to. Broken Trust often destroys a loving, caring relationship, because once broken, Trust is almost impossible to ever be restored to the satisfaction of the hurt partner in the relationship.
Infidelity. Fidelity is an important foundation of any relationship. Without Fidelity, there is no relationship. Infidelity undermines a two-partner loving, caring relationship.
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