When it comes to love, there are different phases of a man falling in love, that starts with attraction and ends with complete togetherness. Love is a magical feeling and at some point we all dream of having someone to love and be loved again. Everyone falls in love at their own pace, there is time for everyone. Falling in love also makes one vulnerable when he opens himself up, giving up completely. There are seven phases of a man falling in love that describes the journey to happily ever after.
Physical attraction phase
We may continue to deny that love has nothing to do with physical appearance but the truth is that it does play a role in love. What you are as a person or your date isn’t obvious from your appearance but your smile or your curves do the trick and create enough interest in the guy to make him approach you. Initially, appearance is what attracts a man, without physical attraction, the chances of love to blossom are much lower. To be honest, at this point, guys are less interested in who you are as a person or your history. If you catch a guy’s attention he will make efforts to get close to you and eventually seduce you, love is still some distance even now.
Friendship phase
In any healthy relationship, partners are more than just lovers, they are best friends. Friendship is the foundation of any relationship. In this stage of love, your partner wants to spend more time with you and learn more about you. The things you like, your favorite color, the type of music you like, and the drink you like best. It’s a good sign if your partner is interested in knowing everything about you. Making efforts to get to know you and be good friends with you indicates his genuine interest in you. He often calls you to hang out with him and his friends to check out how to connect with the people in his life.
‘The Chase’ phase
This is the most interesting and entertaining stage for both men and women. When a guy puts his heart on a girl, the chase begins to win that prize you. At this point, he is trying to win your affection and trust. He will do everything in his power to get your attention and affection. He will ask you and despite your refusal he will not give up. He will continue to chase and nothing will stop him. You’ll get his full attention and during this stage, you’ll know he’s making it clear.
The first date phase
The first date can be the first time you meet (in the case of online dating) or your first formal romantic date. During this stage, you will get to know how well you communicate with each other. If there’s a lack of communication, you’ll know you want time to pass quickly or if you’re reacting perfectly, you’ll probably wish the time would stop.The first date reveals a lot about him, if you two can have a conversation and if you two are interested in each other. This is where you conjure up the past, and if he cares about you with every word you speak then he really does care about you.
The ‘More than friends’ phase
You have his attention and affection and you are physically attracted, you spend some good times together and now comes the stage where he starts to think of you as more than just friends. He’s always been attracted to you but now he sees “the one” in you. He’s not ready to dive in yet but that’s where the seed is planted and here he starts to wonder what life will be like with you. This is a really difficult stage for men because there is fear, you must frighten a new life in front of anyone because what awaits us is never clear but no matter what, he will give up, because once the path starts eventually he will reach that point.
The family phase
Meeting each other’s parents is another big step in the love journey. Allowing you to meet his parents shows his seriousness and it definitely means that he is not only cheating on you, but that he sees a future with you. When you introduce him to your parents, he notices how you react in those moments and how you will be when you are home with him. Guys don’t tend to meet a girl’s parents unless they are in love with her.
The happily ever after phase
Welcome to the final phase, in the final phase I don’t mean the journey ends here but a different journey starts here. The new journey is full of happy and sad moments, struggles and excitement, and many ups and downs. This is the stage when couples may decide to move on and men may finally decide to get on their knees for it. Then, there will be times that require a lot of understanding and compromise. bond is strong, it passes.
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