Three things to avoid when conflict arises in your marriage

Marriage is a union between a man and a woman who have pledged their loyalty to one another. in sickness, troubles, hardship until dead separate them. Various events occur in marriage. Some may be minor, others may be serious which can take a toll on the marriage or relationship. What can you do when conflict arises in your marriage or relationship?

1. Do not shout while angry

2. Don’t share issues with relatives

3. Avoid the counsel of the ungodly

 DO NOT SHOUT WHILE ANGRY

First of all, anger is a destructive tool that is capable of ruining many important things in our life. You have to understand that your partner will make you angry, nonetheless, your ability to handle the situation will prove your maturity as a married man or woman. One of the aspects that prove your level of maturity is not to shout during arguments. Shouting shows disrespect and proof to your partner that you are not ready to discuss issues as adults. Shouting also portrays a domineering attitude which is not the best quality to possess a married man or woman. Instead of shouting to make your point, remain calm and allow the situation to cool down. You must learn not to ever shout when you get into conflict with your wife or husband.

  DON’T SHARE ISSUES WITH RELATIVES

Most couples will hastily complain to their relatives whenever there’s the slightest form of argument in the house. Couples who are not mature emotionally will share their private issues with other family members. When this happens, you’ve introduced a third party in your marriage, and if care is not taken, the marriage might never be the same again. It’s therefore your full responsibility as a couple to ensure that matters in your home, no matter how bad it is, are quietly resolved between the two, however, in the case where the problem seems unbearable to handle, the best thing to do at that moment is to consult a professional adviser or pray to God if you are a believer. 

  AVOID THE COUNCIL OF THE UNGODLY 

Couples should be very careful concerning the people they seek advice from. Some groups of friends may not be worthy to offer good advice. Such people may sympathize with you when you’re going through a rough time with your partner but if measures are not put in place, they may destroy your marriage with their negative ideas. You have to dissociate yourself from this kind of people. Do not seek their counsel so that your marriage can stand the test of time. I will end with a quote from Bahai Writing that says ” Walk, not with the ungodly and seek not fellowship with him, for such companionship turns the radiance of the heart into infernal fire.”

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