Stay single until love feels like these

Desperation sets in when it finds you stressed and in need of love. Sometimes even go to the extent of settling with just anyone, without getting to know them first and thoroughly. You can psych your mind to be single. Never follow the crowd especially when all our circle of friends have partners and you don’t. You can enjoy your single life till that special person comes into your life. Do you believe that there is such thing as the right person?

In today’s article, I have some few points on why you should stay single till love feels like these signs. Kindly read on.

•Be with someone who knows what they want:

At a time in life, I didn’t know what I wanted. Wasn’t able to detect the phase in my life I was in; was just stuck and filled with confusion. That’s all in the past now. There are some people you can be of help to, when they want to figure things out in their lives, as long as they know what they want. No mind games, just be with you and make a life together. People of such do exist out there. 

•Be with someone who doesn’t question your existence:

This is certainly a red flag. Don’t say that the person would change in the future because of you. In some cases, it does happen but when the person is bent on sticking to that kind of behavior, learn to let go. You can’t be with someone who discourages you to become a better person. You are always abused and treated like a slave because they have no idea what your worth is. You are worthy of a relationship where you are loved. You don’t have to settle for less. Never feel the need to suffocate in a relationship, where there is no love and respect. When someone truly loves you, you don’t have to tell them to treat you right. They would do that without a second thought.

•Be with someone who is aware that disagreements are bound to happen:

Yes, this in a relationship is very good. You get to know how your partner reacts to disagreements and how you both can work things out. Most people are afraid to fight with their partners; not abusively though but to not agree on an opinion. They always want their partners to be right. That shouldn’t be so. 

Thank you for reading.

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