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Xandy Karmel, a popular Ghanaian actress and socialite, has painfully recalled being sex-starved despite sharing a home with her husband.
Xandy said she was repeatedly turned down when she boldly requested sex or made the first move.
Xandy Kamel and her estranged husband Kaninja had a rocky marriage with accusations of infidelity from the man.
Xandy revealed she was married to a man who was emotionally unavailable and they lived as strangers.
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Not only that, but she also revealed that sex became a strange word in their marriage.
“Having sex is a struggle for us. I can’t get it even if I ask. I can count how many times my husband and I had sex together. We were married but I was sex-deprived.” She told Kwaku Manu.
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“Is it up to 20? Kwaku Manu asked.
“I’d be glad if it was,” Xandy responded.
Xandy Kamel was asked what kept her going despite all the challenges in her marriage.
“I ignored the warning signs. Things would get better, but they never did. My parents kept encouraging me, so I stayed blindly in that toxic marriage.”
Xandy claims her previous marriage taught her valuable lessons that have shaped her into a better person.
“I’ve learnt a lot of things including how to take care of myself. I’ve also grown in self-acceptance. First, I’ve learned not to ignore warning signs.”
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