Even if a couple has been married for many years it is still very important for a woman to consider her husband’s needs since even the bible states that a wise woman builds her house but the foolish one destroys it with her own hands.
Women should therefore think about the possible effects of their careless words, attitudes and actions, lest they destroy their marriages.
The following are 6 things that women mostly do that destroys their marriage relationships:
1.Dishonoring your husband.
Some women like nagging and correcting their husbands infront of people without knowing how they make them feel. Doing so is not only a bad habit but also a show of dishonor to a man.
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Instead, a woman should wait for the favourable environment to correct her husband’s mistakes and should be done calmly and carefully without unnecessarily making him feel disrespected.
2. Reminding him of things over and over.
Constantly reminding a man about things like diet, weight, medication among other things not only makes a man feel guilty but also makes a woman appear to a man more like his mother than his wife.
3.Making your husband to earn your respect.
Most women think that they should respect their husbands when they earn it.
However, according to the bible, in Ephesians 5:33, women are urged to respect their husbands unconditionally.
Women should also understand that respect is a man’s native tongue that absolutely heals his heart and ministers to him like nothing else.
4. Putting house chores ahead of your husband.
Doing house chores and maintaining cleanliness in the house is a very important responsibility of a woman.
However, women should not over do it to the extent of making their husbands feel neglected and ignored.
A woman should give her husband’s needs and happiness the first priority so as to have a happy and healthy marriage relationship.
5. Running first to the third party to help you fix a marriage problem.
Third party pieces of advice are oftenly hazardous to relationships.
If there arose a marriage issue a woman should instead go to God’s word, believe and act on the things that God has instructed.
In 2 Peter 1:3, God has already given his people everything that they need for life and godliness.
6. Thinking that your way is the right way.
If a man does something differently from the expectations of his wife, it doesn’t mean that it’s wrong.
When a woman insists on her husband always following her own way of doing things it means that she wants to control her husband and that can destroy a marriage.
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